真是要為福智僧團的”廣招僧眾或尼眾”擔心! 即除了擔心那些還在福團的僧眾與新進的福僧,會被金女或金女集團一再當人質與洗腦;以外,還要擔心”離開福團的僧眾”,其思想與個性(或行為)是不是已經被侵蝕的很偏差,即很難改正了—想想,福團真是製造某類的”世紀災難”呀!
2019.1.29
2019.1.29
*為了搞清楚這篇好像是新加坡的網友對福團的控訴-稍作了一點翻譯上的整理-雖不一定是完全的精確,但不這樣稍微消化,只就翻譯機器的中譯文,真是有些地方很”不知所云”,與錯亂.
*總之,這篇文字讓人更是要為福智僧團的”廣招僧眾或尼眾”-擔心! 即除了擔心那些還在福團的僧眾與新進的福僧,會被金女或金女集團一再當人質與洗腦;以外,還要擔心”離開福團的僧眾”,其思想與個性(或行為)是不是已經被侵蝕的很偏差,即很難改正了—想想,福團真是製造某類的”世紀災難”呀!
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2019.1.29
假和尚[@淨遠]時常誇大口說,在僧團里長大的孩子,如何優秀。
這裡有個真實的案例-事實和他[@淨遠]的宣傳,完全相違。
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#一些背景：最近我[A]的弟弟[B]在12歲時 被任命[@剃頭]（他現在已經20多歲了）剛剛回到家中,與我和我們的家人 待在一起，因為他在修道院系統方面[@福智P島的僧團] 遇到了問題，並希望將他的學業,轉移到另一座寺院[@會是在那裏的寺院呢?]。
我虔誠的佛教父母,一開始就反對這個想法[@B的父母反對B離開福團P島的僧團]，但他非常堅持，所以他們最終屈服了。
現在，他正在處理他想要留學的新修道院[@會是要留學那一個寺院呀!] 的簽證申請，現在仍然和我們待在一起 直到他的簽證獲得批准（希望如此）。
@....> 這位12歲”在福團剃頭” 現在20多歲的新加坡僧人-算算,也在福智僧團,學習了10年以上,卻是被教成這樣的”蠻橫” -真是可悲呀!
#無論如何，自從他回來後,每天都在用手機和iPad（他讓我父親買的）整天玩遊戲，或者和他的朋友一起去商場。
我試圖與他溝通這件事，但在話題出現的那一刻，他變得非常憤怒和防守。所以最終，我不再談論它了。
然而，他最近的行為 讓我感到震驚。
昨天，因我媽媽在客廳要他不要在iPad上玩遊戲,這讓他決定到”學習室”玩- 然”學習室”,是我正在使用的地方，他要我出去。
我因為正在用(學習室的)桌子，所以我說”不(出去)”。
在我意識之前，他已開始強力拉我的頭髮。我真的生氣了，告訴他”我會報警”。他竟是說”去呀”
@.....>這樣蠻橫的僧人,還真是少見,應該是精神上已經出問題了吧!
@.....>這樣蠻橫的僧人,還真是少見,應該是精神上已經出問題了吧!
#今天醒來的時候，我做了早餐，想在學習(室)的桌上吃,因為他即將開始在餐廳的桌上吃飯，我想要一些[@不跟他在一起的]空間。
他立刻激動得,把我的食物搬離(學習室)的桌子。
我抗議，他只是說，“如果你用(學習室的)桌子,不要怪我以後會做什麼。”
我嚇壞了,馬上報警。
然後,他開始威脅我- 說我阻礙了一個和尚學習（??） [@在手機上玩遊戲,是和尚的學習?]，傷害了一個和尚，我將遭受嚴重的後果。他還提到了”我的墮胎（我並不自豪）”, 以及 “我以前曾經向其他僧人承認過的問題(事情)” - 用這些方式來傷害我，還包括”根據一位喇嘛說-我將在55歲時死去”，顯然[@是要用這些惡毒的話,傷害我]。
我真的不知道如何處理這個問題。我今天和我們的修道院[寺院]的僧眾,談了幾個關於這件事，但我不確定他們能做些什麼。
我的父母也無法對這件事做甚麼。
我仍然感到非常生氣和受傷。對此(事件),希望得到一些建議。
順便說一下，我們的生活空間.非常小，根據他的說法，那[學習室的桌子]是他的桌子，我不能用它—[@這合理嗎?]
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submitted 8 months ago * by throwaway0325352313
Hi r/Buddhism,
Some context: So recently my younger
brother who got ordained at the age of 12 (he's in his 20s now) just came back
home to stay with me and our family because he is having problems with the
monastery system and wants to move his studies to another monastery.
My devout Buddhist parents resisted
the idea at first but he was very insistent so they eventually caved in. Now,
he's in the midst of processing his visa application for the new monastery he
wants to study in, and still am staying with us at the moment until his visa
gets approved (hopefully).
Anyway, he has been gaming all day
everyday on his phone and iPad (which he made my father buy) or going out with
his friends to the arcade since he got back. I tried to communicate with him
about this, but the moment the topic comes up, he gets very angry and
defensive. So eventually, I stopped talking about it.
However, his behaviour recently really
shocked me. So yesterday, my mom was bugging him to stop gaming on his iPad
while he was in the living room. So he decided to game in the study room
instead, which I was using and he asked me to get out. I was using the table,
so I said no. Before I knew it, he started pulling my hair forcefully. I got
really angry and told him I'd call the police. To which he just said go ahead.
Today when I woke up, I made my
breakfast and wanted to eat it on the study table. Because he was about to
start eating on the dining table and I wanted some space. He immediately got
really worked up and moved my food away from the table. I protested against it,
and he just said, "If you use the table, don't blame me for what I'll do afterwards."
I got so freaking mad and immediately called the police. He then started to
threaten me, saying I am obstructing a monk from studying (??), harming a monk,
to which I will suffer grave consequences. He also mentioned my abortion (which
I'm not proud of) and other problems which I've confessed to other monks before
as a way to anger and hurt me, including how I will die at 55 according to a
Lama, apparently.
I really don't know how to handle
this. I've spoken to a few venerables from our monastery about this today but
I'm not sure what they can do. My parents can't really do anything about this
either. I still feel really angry and hurt. Would appreciate some advice on
this.
Btw, our living space is very small
and according to him, that is his table and I can't use it.
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